“When I’m being perceived as a guy it’s a shallowness……….. I don’t have to try so much that everything is meaningless. If you’re going to laugh at every joke, how do I know if I am actually funny? Which comparatively is not the worst thing, women are treated awful. But to have your whole life somehow infantilized, to have nobody expect more or not have any sort of call to be better is kind of sad. As a guy, I can do whatever. But what does that do for my life? How does that make me a better person? ” – SPECTRUM: the Gender Project interviewee